Sunday, September 6, 2015

About Love

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Love ..

Know the human character was interesting. What looks on the surface, not necessarily according them ..

There is a hard luggage, but not tegaan. There are innate calm, but deadly. Getting to know people need time ..

There are as emotional, but loose and not 'save'. Nothing seemed wise, but 'actors' sly cunning ..

There is a seemingly happy family, has everything, it turns out it is very fragile and full of lies ..

But the funny thing is, many people prefer lied with sweetness, rather than face the painful spontaneity ..

'Most' people who are divorced, have a similar pattern, but it is a case of 'miscast' people (mentally ill).

PATTERN most: Women expect more of her husband. Reality while courting, unlike after marriage. So Disappointed  ..

They are currently in a state of mutual courtship 'pacing', or follow what he wants couples. As cucok so you know. Understandably the promotion period ..

Once married, the promotion period is over, the original character looks. Each other 'leading' begins. I wants this, follow me .. !! * Bughhh

Once started the fuss, come 'third person' 'as if' reconcile the hearts >> Though the old pattern repeated >> still the promotion period, Dodo ..!

If not have a commitment to maintain the marriage, would tell him how strong religious knowledge, find an alibi to give 'separation'. * round 1 after *

"Success is patterned, failed also patterned" >> not only in business, but also in the wedding ..

Learn to grow to understand other people, not just ask others to understand ourselves ..

Perfection is not on the trip, but the learning process ..


A man went to a teacher. He said, "Master, I was tired of life. Totally saturated. Household me apart. My efforts were chaotic. Whatever I do always failed. I want to die." The Master smiled, "Oh, you're sick."
"No Master, I'm not sick. I am healthy. Just bored with life. That's why I want to die."

As if not hearing his defense, the teacher continues, "You're sick. And the illness was named, 'Allergies Life'. Yes, you are allergic to life."

Lots of us are allergic to life. Then, without realizing we are doing things that are contrary to the norm of life. Life goes on. The river of life flowing constantly, but we want the status-quo. We stopped at a place, we do not come running. That is why we fall ill. We invite disease. Our refusal to participate flow with life makes us sick.

Businesses, there must be ups and downs. In married-ladder, a small argument was indeed reasonable. Friendship was not always permanent. What the hell is eternal life? We are not aware of the nature of life. We want to maintain a state. Then we failed, disappointment and suffering. "The illness can be cured, if you're really determined to heal and be willing to follow my directions." said the teacher.

"No teacher, no. I've really saturated. No, I do not want to live." The man refused the offer of the Master. "So you do not want to heal. You really want to die?" "Yes, indeed I was tired of living."
"Okay. Then you will die tomorrow afternoon. Take a bottle of this medicine. Tonight, drink half the bottle's contents. While half sisasnya you drink six o'clock tomorrow afternoon. So eight o'clock tomorrow you will die in peace."

Now, turn it into a confused man. Previously, all the teachers he went always strive to give the spirit of life. However, this one strange teacher. Instead of giving a zest for life, even offered poison. But, because he was already strongly saturated, he accepted it with pleasure.

Arriving home, he immediately spent half a bottle of poison called "drug" by the Master earlier. Then, he felt a calmness that he had never felt before. So relaxed, so relaxed! Stay 1 night, 1 day, and he will die. He will be liberated from all kinds of problems.

That night, he decided to have dinner with the family in a Japanese restaurant. Something he never did during the last few years. It was his last night. He wants to leave sweet memories. While eating, he was joking. The atmosphere is very harmonious. Before going to bed, he kissed his wife and whispered, "Honey, I love you."

Once again, since the night it was last night, he wanted to leave sweet memories! The next day, after waking up, she opened the bedroom window and looked out. His refreshing morning breeze. And he was tempted to do the morning walk. Half an hour later he returned home, he found his wife still asleep. Without waking, he entered the kitchen and make 2 cups of coffee. One for himself, one for his wife. Because of that morning was the last morning, he wanted to leave sweet memories! Istripun feel weird, "Honey, what happened today?

During this time, maybe I'm wrong. I am sorry, dear."
At the office, he greeted everyone, shaking hands with everyone. His staff was confused, "Today, our boss really weird huh?" And their attitude immediately changed. They became soft. Because it was during the last afternoon, he wanted to leave sweet memories!

Suddenly, everything around turns. He became friendlier and more tolerant, even appreciate against the opinions are different. Suddenly life is beautiful. He began to enjoy it.

Go home at 5 pm, he discovered his beloved wife waiting for him on the front porch. This is precisely the time his wife, who gave her a kiss, "Unfortunately, once again I'm sorry, if I had always bother you." The kids did not want to miss, "Father, forgive us all. During this time, my father was always depressed because of our behavior."

Suddenly, the river of life flowing again. Suddenly, life became very beautiful. He thought better to commit suicide. But what he had half a bottle of drink, the previous evening?

He came to the Master again. See the man's face, apparently the Master immediately knew what had happened, "Throw it the bottle. The contents of plain water. You're cured. If you live in the present, if you live with the knowledge that death can pick you up at any time, then you will enjoy every second of life. shatters your ego, pride, arrogance. Be gentle, gentle as water, and flows along the river of life. You will not be bored, will not be bored. You're going to feel alive. That's the secret of life. That is the key to happiness. That is the road to peace . "

The man thanked and greeted the Master, and then return home, to repeat the experience of the previous night. That said, he still continues to flow. He never forgets to live in the present. That's why he was always happy, always calm, always ALIVE!